Untethered
- Bethany Mayer
- Sep 26, 2025
- 3 min read
Updated: Oct 28, 2025
I went kayaking with a friend yesterday, and the experience still lingers in my mind. Life often seems to hit those who least deserve it with stress, turmoil, and upheaval. It makes me ponder what is random, what is the will of some higher power, and what roles we play in this grand saga.
In the end, all I can do is reflect on people, life, and my own perspective.

The Unpredictability of Water
Underwater obstructions can catch you off guard. Currents can be unexpected. Snakes in the water, stumps, and rocks promise capsizing doom if you’re not mindful, aware, and savvy.
Navigating water teaches us that it’s not always wise to fight against what opposes us. Instead, we should ease along with the ebb and flow around the bumps life tosses our way. We can only command ourselves, our strength, and our resilience.
Water can be a wild and unpredictable ride. Yet, it can also be a calm and controlled peace, anchoring us in the continual promise of change. That change can feel world-ending, but often, it’s an opportunity for growth, reliance, and confidence in ourselves.
Embracing the Journey
Sometimes, you must move around the debris and through the weeds. You may even need to nudge yourself over the sandbar to reach the beach and warm water awaiting your rewarding respite. This secret island is a refuge from the noise of society’s warped expectations, rituals, and tribal, cult-like mentality.
The isle of knowing is your reward.
The Gift of Knowing
Knowing truth.
Knowing responsibility.
Knowing accountability.
Holding one’s head high in the right of one’s own word and deed, even when conspiracy spreads like a tsunami around you, is essential.
Safe and strong, you can find security from the rising water in a cave carved out for the simplicity of patience, grace, and truth.
Finding Peace Amidst Chaos
Forward motion on the wave feels liberating. It allows us to untether ourselves from the false weight of rumor and narrative mentality. Life is a journey, and each experience teaches us something valuable.
As I reflect on my kayaking adventure, I realize that every twist and turn in the water mirrors the unpredictability of life. We must embrace these moments, for they shape who we are.
Nature as a Teacher
Nature is a wise teacher. It shows us that we are not alone in our struggles. Each ripple in the water tells a story. Each gust of wind carries whispers of wisdom. When we immerse ourselves in nature, we connect with something greater than ourselves.
This connection reminds us of our shared humanity. It invites us to reflect on our experiences and the lessons they bring.
The Power of Reflection
In moments of stillness, we can find clarity. Reflection allows us to process our thoughts and feelings. It helps us understand our place in the world.
As I sit by the water's edge, I feel a sense of peace wash over me. The gentle lapping of the waves calms my racing thoughts. I realize that life, much like kayaking, requires balance and adaptability.
Embracing Change
Change is inevitable. Just as the water flows and shifts, so do our lives. Embracing change can be daunting, but it also opens doors to new possibilities.
When we learn to navigate the currents of life, we become more resilient. We discover our strength in adversity. Each challenge we face is an opportunity for growth.
Conclusion: The Journey Continues
As I reflect on my kayaking experience, I am reminded of the beauty of life's journey. Each moment, whether calm or chaotic, contributes to our story.
So, let us embrace the unpredictability of life. Let us find solace in nature and the lessons it teaches us. Together, we can navigate the waters of existence, finding meaning and simplicity in a busy world.
In this journey, we are not alone. We are part of a larger tapestry, woven together by shared experiences and the wisdom of those who came before us.
Let’s continue to explore, reflect, and grow. The adventure awaits!




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